Surgery is over

I finally had my surgery and now I am in Physical therapy and on the way to recovery. Thank you all for being so patient while I was having this done.

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It’s time

Sorry everyone for not being on for a while but surgery is finally here, I’m having it tomorrow so hopefully I will be back on soon after I get well . thank you all for being so patient with me it’s almost over.

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I want to let everyone know that my surgery has been authorized, going to doctor to have MRI done. keep you posted. Wish me luck

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Bullying From A-Z- Today’s words are: Abuse, Abusive, Acknowledge, Acting out, Affect, Afraid, Anxiety, and Attitude

No More Bullying-Stand Up- Speak Out

No More Bullying-Stand Up- Speak Out

*****This subject is a tough subject because bullying is a result of different reasons, and I will get into that later. So I want to say read this if you would like to, and comments are welcome on this subject. Also, I am basing this from my experience as a child. So I do have knowledge of how bullying can effect a person or child for that matter. I was a target of bullying and it was no fun, your attitude changes, you become withdrawn from everyone around you. Your afraid to do or say anything to anyone,or do anything that might get me in trouble for that matter. I was the main target at home because I was the oldest and supposed to know better. I had no friends at all. I was a loner all my life. This is like the hardest thing to talk about to. I always stayed in my room because I felt like I was not wanted or part of a family at all. So as far as bullying goes,you could be bullied by family members, people in general, kids at school, and more… People and children have to acknowledge that what they are doing is hurting the person or child that they are bullying, and that bullying is abusive and will cause a person or child to act out, and anxiety to . Bullying is a control issue, because when a person, or child bullies another person it’s because they feel that it’s the only way to get what they want, and feel in control at the same time.. For example taking lunch or money from the children, picking on them because they are different, calling them names, and more. Like I said there are many ways that a person or child whose bullied. The worst part of all this is: when an adult does it, because adults know better, and the children learn from their behavior, and if the children see the adults bullying, then they will get the idea that it’s OK to do the same thing. Also another example is adults who look at the mentally challenged people differently, and they aren’t different. Think about this when you look at a handicapped person/child you are actually looking into a mirror of yourself because that could be you. These children did not ask too be born with disabilities, so why would you look and treat them any different then if they had a normal life. Here is an example, I met a man, who I thought had an injured leg, but to my surprise he was born with Cerebral Palsy, and he is working at a bar as a bartender. So here is where the word A??ume comes in,which means don’t assume you know, ask first. Disabled children work at McDonald’s to, I’ve also seen people in wheelchairs working jobs to. So next time you decide to look and treat handicapped people differently, take a good look in the mirror, and thank god it’s not you or your children. People need to grow up and stop being so judgmental towards other people. We need to stop the bullying, to many children and adults commit suicide and we need to get a handle on it. So on that note I will leave you with the first segment on Bullying from A-Z. See you soon for the next segment of this blog.

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I will answer this question promise.

What was the one experience that completely changed your life? What happened? How did it change your life?

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My First Poem- Ode To Christmas

Ode To Christmas

I wish… I wish, Christmas
I wish that Christmas could be like the Christmas cartoons,
with the beautiful sparkling snow and moon. The animals
are running freely and leaving little pitter patters of feet
in the snow. The birds are chirping away so happily
as they flutter through the snow, playing with the chipmunks
and deer. I sit and watch, as if they have not a care
in the world, just free to play and scurry around
wherever they want.
I wish… I wish Christmas was!
I wish Christmas could be like the Christmas movies,
where the snow falls so perfectly
as each snowflake hits the ground and lands on the trees.
The icicles hanging from the limbs — branches,and the roofs
of the houses;they look like crystals glowing in the sun.
The houses so beautifully decorated with Christmas lights
and decorations. As everyone sits around the fireplace,
drinking hot chocolate with marshmallows,
while opening their gifts.
I learned that “Christmas is not what is; it’s what it’s about.”
I remember being in Vermont;
as I was sitting in the restaurant, the view of the forest
was covered with beautiful, pure white snow,
as I sit and watch the squirrels, blue jays and cardinals in
the snow scattering around, thinking how free they must feel
out there. I wish… I wish Christmas


Now this poem actually came to me in my dream, and I woke up to write it down, so that I wouldn’t forget it. Don’t laugh, dreams do tell you things if you pay attention to them. Also, this poem was published in a book, through a contest. I’ll write the book info in later OK. I did say I was going to bed. Please note: you may share my poems with anyone you would like. All poems are copyright, and written by me.

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Winter At Buttermilk Falls Spa

Winter At Buttermilk Falls Spa

This is the place I happened upon trying to find a park with the same name in Nyack, NY. Well, this is where I ended up. I guess it was meant to be, because it was beautiful up there, so serene and surreal to.

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